Alrighty....hubs thought I was insane when I told him what all I was in to!!! Over the years he has loosened up with some of the things I wanted him to try with me. However; when we have the Dpp conversation he tries his best to avoid it. Y? It took me a minute to make him understand that a woman's body, if taken care of properly, will go back to normal. Now it's almost like there is some type of insecurity there.. what's going on and how do I reassure him that this is all strictly for our pleasure in the bedroom and nothing else?? Help me out everyone. plz.

Alrighty....hubs thought I was insane when I told him what all I was in to!!! Over the years he has loosened up with some of the things I wanted him to try with me. However; when we have the Dpp conversation he tries his best to avoid it. Y? It took me a minute to make him understand that a woman's body, if taken care of properly, will go back to normal. Now it's almost like there is some type of insecurity there.. what's going on and how do I reassure him that this is all strictly for our pleasure in the bedroom and nothing else?? Help me out everyone. plz.

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Hello. Could it be to achieve the DPP it is the closeness to another make to achieve this. I myself was in the same mindset until I let go and understood it wasnít about that at all and was about the pleasure for her and even me. It was not about her at all and my own mental block. As yourself she has led the way to pleasures that I never imagined I/we would ever achieve and I was cheating myself and her out of these experiences. Thatís the great thing about the lifestyle we have grown, experienced firsts and met great people together.
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with couples you have to be open-minded with each other you know you know you love each other but at the same time you're willing to spice your life up with your sex partner it's nothing wrong with it at all
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Great fun. Especially if she likes to get filled and stretched. Maybe offer up dp too.
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Hey hubby, here is my advise to you. "Don't try and understand the why and don't be so insecure that you cannot do this for her. She can get this with whoever she wishes just be glad she has chosen you. Do it you will like it, take my word for it. It's an amazing sexual experience. One you will want to repeat I assure you. If it is the closeness of the males don't be a homophobic bumping into or rubbing against another cock if you are not gay is no big deal. Now if you are gay then it might present an issue, I cannot speak to this for I am not in the know on this subject. I hope this helps ...
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