Alrighty....hubs thought I was insane when I told him what all I was in to!!! Over the years he has loosened up with some of the things I wanted him to try with me. However; when we have the Dpp conversation he tries his best to avoid it. Y? It took me a minute to make him understand that a woman's body, if taken care of properly, will go back to normal. Now it's almost like there is some type of insecurity there.. what's going on and how do I reassure him that this is all strictly for our pleasure in the bedroom and nothing else?? Help me out everyone. plz.

Alrighty....hubs thought I was insane when I told him what all I was in to!!! Over the years he has loosened up with some of the things I wanted him to try with me. However; when we have the Dpp conversation he tries his best to avoid it. Y? It took me a minute to make him understand that a woman's body, if taken care of properly, will go back to normal. Now it's almost like there is some type of insecurity there.. what's going on and how do I reassure him that this is all strictly for our pleasure in the bedroom and nothing else?? Help me out everyone. plz.

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Hello. Could it be to achieve the DPP it is the closeness to another make to achieve this. I myself was in the same mindset until I let go and understood it wasnít about that at all and was about the pleasure for her and even me. It was not about her at all and my own mental block. As yourself she has led the way to pleasures that I never imagined I/we would ever achieve and I was cheating myself and her out of these experiences. Thatís the great thing about the lifestyle we have grown, experienced firsts and met great people together.
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