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When at a party
How do you handle being monopolized by someone? Do you have a signal you use with your partner to come to the rescue... maybe excuse yourself to the restroom (my tactic or something else? It is sometimes a difficult situation to get out of when someone finds a topic interesting to discuss yet your already over it and wanna break free! |
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RE: When at a party...
Yep......... I run to the restroom for sure, but give Eric the "eye" if he is looking at me. He will rescue me if he sees me.
Jules |
RE: When at a party...
oh thats a tough one, i always feel so akward if i wanna get out, dont wanna seem mean,but when you dont wanna here it or have had enough you jus gots to white lie a lil bit!!!lol lol lmao |
RE: When at a party...
yeah, the eye works but only IF they are looking. I tried it at one point last night, didn't work lol
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RE: When at a party...
You just have to speak up and tell them you are not interested in them or let someone else know that will handle it. You cant get shy at a party but others wont know if it is an issue unless you speak out. You can also set up a designated cock blocker lmao on the serious side of it if you see them at another party you can set up some people to run interference for you. We have had people do that here for sure with a new couple that came here 2 times but wont be back for sure. We wont invite the ones that think they can do what they want when they want back to our house. We want everyone to be comfortable when comming here and not hiding in the bathroom or the closets. We stress no means no but some just dont understand the word NO!!!
gary |
RE: When at a party...
So when we come over the 18th. We need to hide?? LOL |
RE: When at a party...
No chris yall are fine we already weeded out the bad seeds lmao Trust me they wont be back we like for the women to be comfortable at our house for sure. When they are not pushed or feel that they have to hide, the more open they get anyways lol No pressuse parties here the offenders will be asked to leave if talking first dont work !! You are both safe I wont try anything with you chris lmao lmao :devil:
gary |
RE: When at a party...
It is unfortunate that some just dont understand that simple two letter word..."NO"
Cum across that fat too often! |
RE: When at a party...
We agree 100 percent with you on that. That is why we only allow a few new couples to join into the group at a time. There is far less problems if you know the people that come to parties. We also hold a couple responsible for bringing someone new, if they get out of hand they will be expected to take care of it. Its only right, it also makes people think twice on who they might bring to a party.
gary |
RE: When at a party...
I like your idea of making the couple that brings them responsible. That makes complete sense. It will make them think twice about who they bring with them. Great idea!!
Julie |
RE: When at a party...
Thanks Julie we have used that method for sure. When we get a call asking if they can bring so and so we tell them sure as long as you vouch for them, we have got back a response that maybe they shouldnt bring them because they dont really know them, I just tell them its on them either way, it really does work great!!
gary |
RE: When at a party...
Why does this make me think of Rick Morenis and Sigourny Weaver? Oh right. Ghostbusters.
In a pinch, I'll just start ranting about something uninteresting. |
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