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What Gives
just wondering if there are actually any people that actually want to meet and forge new friendships or is it that everyone just wants to look at pics and do the cam thing? |
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RE: What Gives
when and where do you want to meet?
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RE: What Gives
We both prefer meeting rather than cam but it takes time and patience.... and depends on the area you live in to make connections. |
RE: What Gives
I understand time and patience maybe it is just Chicago area is all talk and no walk.
As Far as when and where that is posted in my other thread |
RE: What Gives
I am not the best at chat rooms and find that most of the time it is had to follow and although shy is not me at all find webcams to be restrictive! email is impersonal. prefer the in your face no hassle meet and greet. just people getting together with no expectations laughing talking drinking the old fashion way!
I dont know maybe that is just being to forward!?! |
RE: What Gives
I agree with you but ya gotta start somewhere and most will not meet in person without some form of chat history.
The previous poster asked you where and when, why didn't you answer them instead of directing them to another post? In my opinion they extended an invite and frankly you did not seem interested or atleast eager to pursue it.
Just my observation!!!
Good Luck,
Gin |
RE: What Gives
That was not my intent. We are more the eager to meet new people and see where things go but there is a bit of discretion as we just don't want anyone to show up so we do need to follow the rules. That is why I directed them to the other thread. My apologies if I seemed uninterested. |
RE: What Gives
Contact them, get to know more about one another and if all agree and are comfortable then plan a meeting in public,it's safe and easy to get out of if all goes south.
No apology needed, meeting and ultimately swinging isn't as easy as one may think!!
Hang in there, you will find what you are looking for!!!
Smooches,
Gin |
RE: What Gives
We don't really care for chat rooms either as we are in construction not secretarial, I can't type that fast. But we do want to chat a little bit and exchange pics before we set up meets because there has to be an attraction, Life is to short to waste time going to a blind meet, remember blind dates. So please try to be a little patient with those you converse with, besides that a lot of us see that as pushy ( not saying it is ). Maybe try hosting a house party, you still get to decide who you ok the invites for.
Good luck
Dave and Mary |
RE: What Gives
i also prefer to meet and see where it goes. you just cant tell what and how well you will get along on just chatting on the web. i have dificulty spelling and talking on web cam (just seems so impersonal) as far as the chatroom goes way too many conversations going on at once i have dificulty trying too read a reply when there is 10 other replies at the same time and it goes off screen |
RE: What Gives
I fear that my words are coming out the way I mean them as I dont want to do the blind date thing at all. I think that what I do mean is that there are alot of people on here that just here to do the Peek and Pull if you know what I mean and that is what I am upset about. you know alot of one sided picture allowance than the block button. you know the old saying the one F's it up for the many. I have no problem with the getting comfortable online the the face to face. I am just not getting to the right people online I guess! |
RE: What Gives
There are alot of but holes for lack of a harser term out there but there are also alot of great people who will meet. Unfortunately we have to filter out the bad ones and it can be frustrating to say the least. They say patience is a virtue, it's more like a necessity. We have all run into the type that you are talking about, just hang in there and you will find who you are looking for.
Dave and Mary |
RE: What Gives
Newlife143
I am not sure what you are looking for (your profile was blocked) evedintually your not looking for single men. LMFAO.
In your post you said "people" "to meet and forge new freindships" hmmmm I guess your only looking to make freinds with couples? or maybe females?
NP I understand but you did say people..... men are people (atleast the last time I checked we were) lol lol lol I also think you ment freinds for benifits not just freinds.
Good luck in your ventures.
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