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Sexting Rules?

Innocent flirting... talking over the phone... sending IM messages...sounds ok, right? So, instead your texting, better than that "Sexting" sending sexual signals via the phone, pictures, or even videos... so what rules do you have between you and your partner?
What would you do if you knew that there was a person of the opposite sex sending incessent sexual messages, pictures and a full blown porno of themselves to you partner routinely? Is there a limit as too how much is too much? How do you know it's "innocent" flirting and not more....
What happens when the person you have been "sexting" turns out to be a married person imitating a single swinger?

Answers:

RE: Sexting Rules?
you must feel betrayed..i could never do that if i was attactted or seeing someone in the lifestyle!!!1

RE: Sexting Rules?
Sharon we have a rule on that one well maybe not a rule just a little discretion. I give my number out for parties but if someone calls I dont save them all. I will save a number in my phone if its the guys cell number and amanda only saves the females. We dont do the sexting thing at all I even took off the ability to text completely from my phone. It can get you into alot of trouble for sure, you never know if its just one or both on the other end. So I say if its a couple then talk through emails so both can see. My opinion is it just feels wrong to be sexting back and fourth all day long. The lifestyle is not an all day everyday orgy there is limits with anyone.
gary

RE: Sexting Rules?
Tony and I don't have a problem with it as long as we both know what the other is doing and with whom as far as communicating goes, via phone or computer. We do not clear our phone messages just incase the other wants to see a conversation via text. Neither one of us get into cybersex, phone sex or sex on cam. But Tony is fully aware of my ability to have mental orgasms in certain instances when chatting with others and he has no problem with that.

TRUST is certainly the BIG thing here snd if that trust is ever broken, then problems could arise!

Smooches,
Gin

RE: Sexting Rules?
We don't do sexting at all! As a matter of fact, only a few people have my phone number. Not because of mistrust issues or anything like that!!! I'll give my number once we feel secure with them. Clark doesn't text! lol What I have gotten from someone that's of a sexual content or even a funny, I always share it with Clark! Those that have our number, we trust them completely!!!
As far as flirting......I love to flirt!!! lol lol lol xoxo Shirley

RE: Sexting Rules?
I started out with letters and photo exchanges. Not something you could hide from the wife, since she and I both picked up the mail. Perfume and hearts on the envelopes LOL. I really don't do sexting. Time to time, some verbal on the phone. This would be most likely with someone I've already been with or I know well. My phone is not a good sex toy. Well maybe on vibrate LOL. I would keep that kind of stuff to a web site like this. Here we can have fun AND make it real. Hugs to some kisses to others. B Bopp

RE: Sexting Rules?
Sharon says I'm the biggest Flirt in the world when it comes to women, Even when she is there with me. I have had some fun on the IM a couple of times with some people but it is not as fun as meeting them, So it does not happen to much. Sharon and I don't keep secrets from each other, So if she wanted to have fun this way, I have no problems with it.

RE: Sexting Rules?
we agree completely Shirley...we have a couple of numbers(wink wink) and its respectful to not abuse the trust given to you by a couple that give their number to you.

RE: Sexting Rules?
I hear ya hun!!! :sexywink:

kisses
Shirley

RE: Sexting Rules?
Gary you didn't save my number? :(

RE: Sexting Rules?
We have 2 separate IM accounts on yahoo. Only a select few trusted people have the one Annette uses. That is where we start. Phone # only get exchanged after we " hit it off" with someone. If we trust someone with #s then it's all fair game. Lol

RE: Sexting Rules?
No not even yours is in my phone :biggrin: But your numbers are on a piece of paper by the computer lol Besides your harmless lmao lmao We both have access too everyones numbers just not in our phone. Amanda knows who I talk too I tell her everything lmao no secrets here lol lol lol
gary xoxoxo

RE: Sexting Rules?
Well I dont know about all of you but my honey surely appreciates sexting hehehehe. I especialy enjoy it when I can catch him off gard, like the one time he had to stay on a bar stool because i gave him a raging hard on. I love being evil lmao

RE: Sexting Rules?
When we first started courting the sexting was a lot more than what it is now. I think he gets more from his girlfriend that moved....she's always been a horn dog and never able to get it (or at least get satisfied) now that she's moved away from us!

Sharon

RE: Sexting Rules?
I almost never give out my # as I truly do not like to talk on the phone, period. I would rather send emails or have Todd do the talking lol Even when I was single, I think there was maybe 5 people who had my number; those that I could trust and had met.

Sharon

RE: Sexting Rules?
I do not hear from her to much anymore Babe. Its time for you to find me a new girlfriend. Are there any takers here?

RE: Sexting Rules?
That is one thing my wife and I have agreed on as well. Anything that goes to a potential partner is fair game to be read by the spouse. Don't say anything to them over text you wouldn't say with your spouse in front of you.

Which for some people leaves a VERY large amount of options available. =P

As far as what to do if they turn out to be someone imitating a single person and really is married, that I'm not sure what to do about. Clearly false pretenses will cause things to go badly eventually.

RE: Sexting Rules?
Most times a single person starts to mess up rather quickly. We instead of I, Us instead of me, that kind of thing. At any given time, you can say, no thanks, if you find your selves with a cheater, and leave. Then tell all your friends about this person.

RE: Sexting Rules?
I agree with Coppergirl. My husband and I frequently used to "sext" each other when he worked away, through sexting or emails. It made the times we were apart not seem so long. I enjoyed sending pics or describing what I would do to him when he got home, and I know he enjoyed recieving them! As far as sexting someone else, that doesnt happen. It was a way we could stay close to each other when we were so far apart. I still sometimes send him a pic, or something when he is at work, makes him smile, and makes the cumming home all that much better!

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