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Real people??

How do you go about finding out if the people you meet on here are for real? I've seen many profiles where they say some people on here are fake or scammers. My husband and I are really interested in meeting people off cam, but are a little apprehensive about it as well. What's your advice?

Thanks,
Christina

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RE: Real people??
Communication is the key!! The more you talk to people, the more ya get to know them. We are 'for reals'! Let the people that y'all have chatted with know what you desire & let them/her/him know what y'all want.

Meet someone/cpl in a public place! If y'all want to meet a certain person/cpl...McDonalds or anywhere that is a public place! That gives you the option to leave or stay interested! As a cpl, we give signals, (if we both agree with another cpl/single). It may a nod, a cough, ya know? But we communicate with each other! I can't STRESS this enough, communication!!!

Hope this helps....
Shirley & Clark

RE: Real people??
Shirley's right, It starts with open and honest communication between you two, first. Then find out what they wont and expect.
As for a place to meet. I would NOT pick a noisy, crowded bar or night club. You wont to talk, to them. Not yell at them. Pick somewhere your, comfortable with.
If at any time, one or the other feels uncomfortable, call it off, go home and talk about it. This INCLUDES after you agree to hook up!
B Bopp

RE: Real people??
It can be hard to talk to someone at a bar thats for sure, but it is still a good neutral place and easy to escape from in the need arises. We try our best to find out all that we can long before meeting them. Like Shirley said everyone has a look so make sure you pay attention to it and watch for the signs of your partner. We even got up our first time during adult time to go make sure we both were on the same line with each other and make sure we wanted to continue. So yes communication is top priority.
gary

RE: Real people??
I totally agree with what everyone else has said! Also, one of the best ways to determine if someone is real is to chat here in the forums. Yes there are swingers whom are real who do not enjoy chatting here but you can bet yer boots that the regulars here are really REAL!!!

Good Luck!

Smooches,
Gin

RE: Real people??
I wanted to clarify, I said NOISY bar or club. I prefer a bar or club. There is entertainment there. Pool tables and dance floors and BEER lol
Gin's has a point. Forums, it's hard to be fake here.

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