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Hey ladies! I am a married bisexual woman and pretty new to the swinging lifestyle. My question is how do you go about meeting other like-minded women (besides websites like Swingtowns)? I am a bit afraid of approaching women for fear of offending them. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! |
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I would like to know this as well! I am unsure of what they may think, scared of taking the chance. I feel ya! I guess since I am seeking a woman for us to enjoy, I would find it totally hot if a girl liked me and my hubby and asked to join us. |
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I don't know..cuz There is a cpl that we chat with, vanilla cpl....I think they know we are swingers, but not sure. She gets onry with me & Clark, pats me & kisses Clark (not on the lips) on the cheek...She has rubbed my leg, I think in fun! But Dang, I'd love to rub her tits & kiss her all over!!! The fantasies I have about vanilla people! Good luck in your travels! Shirley |
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that is a very hard question, but with us we ars open to everyone about us being in the lifestyle.we have been to bars and vanilla parties. sometimes in coversation with new people they talk about wanting to try certain things with a couple. we openly tell them we are swingers and a light comes on in there head. So we talk more in detail about things they would like to try. This has worked for us many times and with single women also. You never know what might happen there is a little cuiosity in everone we believe. one more thing that has worked very well with us in a bar is if you notice them looking or show a little interest have your husband or boyfriend to tell her that your girlfriend thinks shes hot. we have never had someone get mad at us for that but if she is interested you just created a whole new inviornment with her. she usually will come talk to her and several has been very interested if you know what we mean.
so get out there and listen for hints or watch for the looks, it can take you a long ways.
gary and amanda |
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I have found that just talking to others openly about sexuality in the right environments can say a lot and give a lot of signals as to their comfort levels when it comes to their sexual preferences and experimentation levels. Not everyone wants to admit they are bisexual, or even realize they are; especially woman as sometimes it is just a heat of the moment thing the first time.
I would suggest if you are wanting to meet "only bisexual" women that you attend a club or group that caters to them.
Sharon |
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Thanks for the insight ladies! |
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I agree.....talking openly, but with discretion, and see where it leads. |
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I would like to know too. I live in a small town and seems like no one else here is into swinging? I dont know.. Im not in to one night stands or to people i dont even know, but wish I had a good friend who would like to join a sexual couple with an appetite for sex! |
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Sometimes in small towns no one is 'out of the closet' you may need to go to a larger town or city in the area, make connections and go from there.
Sharon |
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You're right, and making one connection will lead to other people in the lifestyle. I also think that visiting a club will be good for you. We're recent members at a club here, and I've met a lot of new people. If I'm not sure if they're into the lifestyle I'll lead the convo into small talk about sex, and gauge their response before I talk about swinging.
Meka |
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Same here...it's not extremely small but it seems like everyone nows each other nonetheless. I want to go to a bigger city one of these weekends where it would easier to be open about it. |
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