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Pregnancy

Has anyone ever got pregnant or gottin someone pregnant while swinging. IF so how did you handle that. Just a question that popped into my warpped mind LOL.

Answers:

RE: Pregnancy
Wows, that's a good question! I've never heard of it happening...but it surely would create a BIG problem. Of course this issue is avoidable if proper precautions were taken before playing.

Sharon :love:

RE: Pregnancy
Actually, swinging can be a great way to get the lady pregnant if her hubby cannot conceive. But all the parties have to agree that that is a possible and desireable goal, and that the child belongs to the husband and wife regardless of who conceived it.

RE: Pregnancy
This is a topic in one of my forums. There are ladies and couples, that this is the goal. There are hundreds of posts. Some are not even swingers. They just want a baby.
But to answer your question, how would I know? I play with couples. There is a man in the ladies life already. I do not believe I've been with any virgins in the last 40 years. OK maybe not that long.
Back to your question. If someone in the lifestyle said they were to have My baby. I'd first ask for a blood test. This would be not for denial, just proof. After that, who knows?
The couples I know don't sleep around so they could take a good guess who the father is. I only know one couple that dropped out of the lifestyle to have a baby. Calleigh Marie is 2 1/2 now and her parents are back in swing.
To answer your question a different way. If my lady and I were to have a baby, even black with curly hair, it would be ours!

RE: Pregnancy
I have come across a women on this site looking to get pregnant...she beats around the bush but this is her ultimate goal.
Method of contraception should be on the top of everyones list of questions and not just for STI's.
I would guess how we would handle it should it ever come up would depend on everyone involved.

RE: Pregnancy
My husband and I have asked our self this question many times, what would we do if I got pregnant while swinging or if the other couple got pregnant while swinging, and our answer wasn't as nice as some of the other's on here. My husband said that if it were another man's baby he would want me to have an abortion, I myself would not want to do that, none the less, he would not want the baby in our life. I know I would rather give the baby up for adoption than abort. It's a touchy subject and I know many think that if they take the proper precautions that pregnancy is less likey, but there is no 100% method of birth control that works. Even if someone says they are on the pill, problems can still arise if not taken properly, or mixed with other medications like antibiotics. If pregnancy is a major concern, then in my opinion you should remain monogamous with my partner, then take the risk!

RE: Pregnancy
Before you go any further, you both need to work this out. Hell girl, you could get pregnant from another lady! If she was eating cum and then eats you, you could get pregnant. If you did scissors, pussy to pussy, you could get pregnant. What would happen if you haven't been with a man and you become pregnant? This is your marriage and maybe an unborn child your talking about!

RE: Pregnancy
The majority of couples our age in the lifestyle tend to have made more permanent choices for one or both partners. Hysterectomy, vasectomy, tubial ligation, and on a lesser scale IUD's. These along with condoms and your basic safe sex guidelines are to my knowledge the best precautions we can take.
I put no trust in women using the pill or other contraception methods that base the effectiveness strictly on the user. (Take no offense ladies, life happens we forget, take other meds that conflict, get sick etc...)
The big V is in the works for my man but until then we choose not to do full swap with couples who rely on the pill and the like.

RE: Pregnancy
Well Todd always wears rubbers, so he does try to hinder the issue of pregnancy and such.... but if someone were to claim they were prego by him ....
1. I'd want a DNA
2. We'd need to make arrangements for custody and child support
3. We'd need to figure out how to explain how we know this person to others whom don't know our lifestyle (family and the such)

Unless it was done purposefully by the woman... I would just say that all things happen for a reason But if it was done deliberately behind my/our back I'd definitely be holding out those 9 months to kick someones ass lol

Sharon

RE: Pregnancy
Well I am already pregnant and now want to swing more than ever am I wrong for this?? I only have 11 weeks left for pregnancy before my little girl is here I am very horny all the time and I absolutely love sex I think I crave it more than food!! Am I wrong? ? I want to suck some pussy and penis other than my husband's!! I really want to see my man fuck another woman while I lick her clit and her husband fucks me this is such a fantasy of mine that has become a craving I want to fulfill badly!!

RE: Pregnancy
Unless your Dr. has said other wise, 4 to 6 weeks to fuck. It is not uncommon for some woman to crave sex, up to the time of birth. I believe the number goes up, right after birth. But be careful, this is your child your talking about.
B Bopp

RE: Pregnancy
Years ago they used to recommend sex to help a woman go into labor if she was overdue. I would say sex during the last couple months with multiple partners may bring up risks of STD's and that, but the actual sex part is fine (my opinion).

Sharon

RE: Pregnancy
Actually had a couple friend of ours who got pregnant from a swingers encounter. she kept the baby,and things seem to be going well. The chile is 3 years old now. But it was extremely stressful time. They are caucasion, father was african-american.

RE: Pregnancy
Yes I know 4 to 6 weeks after birth no sex not my first child just my first time I've craved extracurricular sexual activity. I ALWAYS wait until my 6 week check up before sex again sometimes longer just to be safe! Yes I know to take precautions there's no way of telling who's dirty or clean fun present day can cost you your life

RE: Pregnancy
I know Todd has always wanted to play with a pregnant woman... just so hard to find!

Sharon

RE: Pregnancy
I meant up to your 8th month. Before birth. I'm no Doctor! DO NOT, take this as an OK, to have sex!
I went to the doctors AND ASKED if sex was ok for "HER" and I. We did spoon and doggy till her 9th month.
Again, I repeat, this is not to say you should have sex, just that some can and will, till their 9th month.
B Bopp

RE: Pregnancy
Of course I will be waiting 6 weeks after pregnancy before sec I think it's just nasty to not just wait at least until your 6 week check up myself personally usually wait longer just to be sure everything is healed. This is my third child and I of course have to always consider my children first,but this is the. First time ever I have had sexual desires of this magnitude. There is absolutely no way of looking at someone and determining if they are clean or not and people don't come with precautions attached to them that's the scariest part of this lifestyle pregnant or not! I can only be sure my partner and I are clean free from any disease what so ever because I have been checked for everything twice!! Safety is always the best way to go with any couples play!

RE: Pregnancy
Sex is fine especially the last few months it helps to open the cervix and makes birth easier. The hardest part of swinging is to find good clean people to do it with,but we are right in Indy!!

RE: Pregnancy
I'm fixed......so I don't have to worry about making babies. Kat is not fixed, so we tend to look for males that are also fixed. If not, she on birth control......and we know it could still happen. So I can't say what we would do......but would probably raise the kid and not let the father know. How would you explain that to friends and relatives. Too much personal damage control.

RE: Pregnancy
I only support a woman's right to choses until the child is 5! I've also heard,"if more woman swallowed, father's day would be less confusing." I think hob parties should know upfront. Who knows what sell know medically over the child life? He/she my want the dads family history?

RE: Pregnancy
i am cut,tied,burnt and do the depo so bring it on.can shoot multiple loads here and no babies. we are still doing the safe sex method, wear condoms. a good hot load does feel good.

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