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Do any of you couples even bother with the profiles without pics in them? Just curious...because I find myself getting a lot of them and I'd just delete them.

Answers:

RE: Pictures
for some reason I never check out the profiles without pictures.

RE: Pictures
I don't know to me it just seems obsolete...I mean for one who wants to meet unknown and for another if you can browse our profiles then why shouldn't we be able to see yours...in the end if your worried about someone telling..lol they're on this site as well...just my opinion

RE: Pictures
We do not delete but ask for face pic before any chatting.

RE: Pictures
I sometimes depending on the profile write up and date they became a member will initiate contact. For the newbies I may send a message suggesting putting a picture up and keeping it private so members may take them a bit more seriously. Guess for me its on a case by case basis.

Sharon

RE: Pictures
Myself,,I never agree to meet anyone on photos alone.My opinion,Thats just crazy,,Anyone I am interested in must come in chat ,Get on cam and get acquainted with me there,,Or no go,,And no photos at all are not a consideration,,After all,, Thats what draw's my attention to you in the first place,,

RE: Pictures
depends on what you are looking for.Myself I read the profile and then go from there all pics dont always speak the truth.

RE: Pictures
I agree with most of you. If a person doesn't post a pic, it's been my experience so far, that either they don't have enough confidence in their appearance to do so, (and why would you find them attractive if they don't) or they are married, and sneaking around without their spouse's knowledge. Either way, it's bad.

RE: Pictures
There are a number of reasons not to post a picture. For example, here in NC a number of state troopers have lost their jobs due to having affairs or other sex related issues, including jokes. Or you own a business, you really don't need your banker, etc. finding out through some quirky accident. Facebook pictures have been picked up electronically. I'm glad to share and have nothing to hide if someone asks. Just another side to the question.

RE: Pictures
I don't look at profiles without pics either

RE: Pictures
OK OK, I will post as soon as I can figure out how to get a pic from my phone to me email to a way to get it here.. any help? it is on my e mail.. thanks

RE: Pictures
HELLO EVERYONE
I UNDERSTAND THE PRIVATE PICTURE PRINCIPLE AND WILL SHARE WITH ANYONE WHO I KNOW IS NOT MY NEIGHBOR OR MY KIDS TEACHER THOSE WHO BLOCK BECAUSE OF PRIVATE PICTURES MIGHT BE MISSING OUT HAVE A GREAT DAY
ROB

RE: Pictures
I'm a profile rep so I read every profile I look at.
As was stated before , there are several legitimate reasons for not putting a picture up.

Professionals that don't want to lose their job. (Swinging is illegal in most states you know)

People that have legal age children, that don't want them to see them on a site like this.

I knew a couple that belonged to another site that declined to play with someone and that someone contacted their elderly mother with the information about swinging.

They no longer put pics on their profile.

So, it's not always cheaters and such that don't post pics.
You can tell alot about a well written profile.

Lastly,
My husband and I met on a site similar to this.
I had no pics on my profile and he met me sight unseen.
I think communication and honesty about what you want is far more important than pics.
Just my two cents.
Huggs,
Karen

RE: Pictures
oh how so true karen

caren

chris

RE: Pictures
Well we will sometimes check out profiles and read them and see if we would be interested in maybe talking to or meeting up with them based on profile we will usually emnail them and ask for a pic,because we like to know who we are considering and we can put a face to a profile. And so far we have not gotten any resonses back.

RE: Pictures
If you download the pic from your e-mail to a computer, you can load it from your pics through the browser.
Huggs,
Karen

RE: Pictures
I dont pay my membership fees to look at shadow people, I want some visual idea of who you, are attractive or not. I will read the profile at times but really would prefer seeing who I am reading about. Just my preference, but a no pic is not a deal breaker?

RE: Pictures
What about people that cover there faces or no face at all but then expect a face pic from you before you see thiers. Several profiles say that they will send you there pics after they look at your and are interested in you. Isnt the life style about being open and adventurous. I understand the need for some to be discrete though.

RE: Pictures
If I can't see your private photos first you will not see mine, period. I am not shy about my photos and give permission if given permission. The way I see it is that I pay my membership fee on here and it is not to build a photo collection for non members who are here for that or members as well.

RE: Pictures
We don't. We figure most of the time it is a man posing as a couple.

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