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NOTE TO PUSHY SINGLE AND MARRIED MALES

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NOTE TO PUSHY SINGLE AND MARRIED MALES

Single males that seek to attend one of our parties must be pre-approved to attend and be sponsored as a guest with an attending sponsor (couple or female), or, you must bring a "non-blind" date along with you for entry to and during the whole club event. Sorry, we can not allow hoards of single male memberships for the simple fact of the time involved screening single males unable or unwilling to produce a "swinger-date." Furthermore, we must keep a balance of quality and happy couples and single females seeking other quality couples. For the simple fact, that most single males are pushy and unlearned leaving no attraction for most couples willing to attend. We recommend that you read the informational article: "SWINGERS ETIQUETTE."

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Pushy males, while prowl and recurrently watching porn, do not take into account that porn is interpersonal, scripted, staged and fictional sexual relationships of adults by adults to inform their viewers of the wide range of important aspects within sexual expression and sexploration. Please note, that these fictional accounts of intercourse do not always exhibit the full range of real life relationships and emotions, but threesomes always do the consenting purpose of the free-willed ministry for every single male! On the other hand, the pushy-male syndrome abounds with the attribute of unattractiveness and unable to pull in couples or single females from/for love-healthy relationships.

Married men that want to get started in the Lifestyle, but yet, have a unresponsive spouse certainly has a challenge before them. Sure, you might have discussed liberated truths with your wife; but seldom, hardly ever, almost never, do wives change their minds by mental logic and research. Both secular and religious women alike are conditioned from birth to go by custom and by their emotions, and balk at sexual liberation from talk talk talk. They almost never give their husbands permission to have sex with others. Thus, why you are on the internet to try it secretly, or perhaps watching porn to start imaging what will never happen? She knows she can make your life extremely miserable if she just says, "NO!" That's it, the discussion is over! She, knowing full well the whole worldly system is behind her with the whole false Church system backing her up, would gladly have the whole worldly churchy law system punish you for ever fulfilling your sexual dreams (with a 60% tax called divorce and child support). Therefore, few wives (or husbands) have the deeper spiritual marriage of real love, that it takes to allow the other to be happy with others and together, making others happy.

Why not turn the tables in her favor and choke her logic by giving her a threesome with an additional male? You aren't in a position to consider a threesome with single female as a couple or as in a one-on-one, when you can't lower your pride to give her an additional lover first. Of course, don't be selfish allowing her a lover just so you can fuck yours, and to further avoid bonding with your spouse. Try real bonding by giving her a threesome with another male that you both choose. I did MFMs for 2+ years and it changed my whole way of thinking and my life! It's called biblical sexual hospitality. Maybe that's the reason I own a swingers club, DJ for, write for, and defend the Lifestyle in FULL liberty because of my past faith! I thank God everyday for my wife and my lovers. She is truly a submissive listener and has been given total liberty to fully explore her fantasies and desires with us both operating in 100% full upfront honesty, trust and faith along side with each other equally!

The summation for married men seeking the Lifestyle without their participant spouse somehow never seems to work out, and as always, learn the hard way that all males must choose a much better choice when choosing whom to contract with in marriage. Mind you, the world does not encourage us to learn about true love. The solution of adding a second lover or husband does help us understand what real love is, that is, in giving our lover what they can appreciate the most. Give, and then later we might receive. But even if we don't later receive, we just do it for sake of love's sake. And amazingly, bringing in another male from the outside, also helps alleviate the pushy-male syndrome, are ministered too in nakedness, and greatly learn to share with the original mate.

For taking a single male into a couple's sacred bedroom is a ministry! In our experience, most single males miss the mark and think our sharing is a weakness, whereby thinking they can steal some free pussy. Alas, if couples still talk to single males regardless, nothing ventured, nothing gained; soon enough, our wives (as well as the single males spoke to) will learn to love others in a safe environment where we all stick together and support one another. You married men should show off "your balls," I mean courage, liberating your spouse and show her true love; all the while, we learn not to compete with fellow males. At the same time, loving, learning and sharing with a single-male solves the problem of the single-male syndrome. Great solution, and, it works!

So for all you males out there, please do not assume that just because a couple or single female profile is open in stating their sexuality that they or she will spontaneously begin enjoying the things you fantasize about. Be courteous to others within the Lifestyle, without others helping you, then this whole thing about creating a swinging-date from scratch, would seem downright time-consuming to a lazy male.

Communication is one of the most important aspects of any relationship, but it is even more important in a swinging relationship. If you don't feel you can talk to your partner about anything and everything then you probably can't talk to them about swinging. If you want to bring up the topic and don't know how, then work on talking with your partner about everything else first. Perhaps we could counsel with both of you.

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RE: NOTE TO PUSHY SINGLE AND MARRIED MALES:
What about pushy couples, seems you are hung up on pushy single males? Pushy single females, what about them? Due to time constraints I will leave with those general questions?

RE: NOTE TO PUSHY SINGLE AND MARRIED MALES:
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RE: NOTE TO PUSHY SINGLE AND MARRIED MALES:
well ill tell ya im asingle male i dont have to be pushy it all comes back to daddy

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