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How does one learn what the acronyms mean?

Question:

How does one learn what the acronyms mean?

Gin,

Brand new to the lifestyle and need to learn the lingo I guess. For example what is a soft swap and a hard swap. What other terms or acronyms might it be helpful for us to know?

Thanks for your advise.

Answers:

RE: How does one learn what the acronyms mean?
well soft swap for most can be just oral or just messing around a little not going all the way. Different people have different opinions on that. Hard swap or full swap is all out sex. BBW is big beautiful women. If you have any questions on what some other things are you run across feel free to email us
gary and amanda

RE: How does one learn what the acronyms mean?
LifeStyle Definitions
AC/DC - Bi-Sexual Person(s)

Arts - Fetishes

B&D or BD - Bondage and Discipline

Back Door - Anal Sex

BBW - Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight.

BDSM - Bondage - Discipline - SadoMasochism

BI or Bisexual - Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.

Bi-Curious - Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited Bisexual experience.

Bondage - The practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure.

Can Entertain - Someone that has a private location and is willing to invite others over.

Can Travel - Someone that is willing to travel, generally beyond an hours drive.

CD - Cross Dresser - Person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally used by men.

Clean - Diseases and Drug Free

Cougar - An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.

Couple - Two people, generally one male, one female.

CPL - Couple

Cunnilingus - Oral stimulation of the vagina/clitoris

DD - Clean, disease and drug free.

Discipline - Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire.

DP - Double Penetration, simultanious Vaginal and Anal.

Entertain - Can Entertain

Exhibitionism - Showing off in public, involving nudity.

F - Female

Fellation - Oral stimulation of the penis

Fetish - Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects.

Full Swap - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to AND including intercourse.

FWB - Friends With Benefits: Friends who have casual sex without any kind of commitment.

Gay - Homosexual, generally a male, but not always.

GBM - Gay Black Man

GWM - Gay White Male

Heterosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex.

Homosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex.

Hotwife - A happily married woman that enjoys having sex outside the marriage with the full support of her husband. The husband is generally monogamous with his wife and may or may not watch her with other men.

Hung - One with a large penis

HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight.

ISO - In Search Of

Lesbian - Gay women.

LTR - Long Term Relationship

M - Male

MBC - Married Black Couple

MBiC - Married Bi Couple

MILF - Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck

Moresome - More than four.

MWC - Married White Couple

NSA - No Strings Attached

Off-Premise - A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play. This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.

P/P - Photo/Phone

S&M or SM - Sadism/Masochism

Safe - Someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.

SBF - Single Black Female

SBiF - Single Bi Female

SBiM - Single Bi Male

SBM - Single Black Male

SGL - Single

Sodomy - Usually Anal sex, possibly forced.

Soft Swing/Swingers - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.

STD - Sexually Transmitted Disease.

STR8 or STR or Straight - Straight, a Heterosexual person.

Swap or Swapping - Two couples exchanging partners

SWF - Single White Female

SWM - Single White Male

Unicorn - Slang for a single, generally bi-sexual female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare.

Versatile - Bisexual

Voyeur or Voyeurism - One who enjoys watching.

Water Sports - Urination involving sexual stimulation.

RE: How does one learn what the acronyms mean?
There is a site called Urban Dictionary and a lot of times if someone uses an acronym I do not know I will look it up there.

Sharon

RE: How does one learn what the acronyms mean?
There ya go Sweeties, a full list for you, hope it helps!!! Soft swap is basically known as foreplay only, no intercourse. If your guidelines need it to be something slightly different simply let your partners know!!

ENJOY!
Gin

RE: How does one learn what the acronyms mean?
I can't think of anything you missed. A great list for new couples.

RE: How does one learn what the acronyms mean?
Thank you everyone. Cannot wait for my man to get home so we can talk about what to put in our profile and what kind of pictures we should post. We are one pretty excited couple.

RE: How does one learn what the acronyms mean?
I didnt make it up just copy and paste. love that function.

RE: How does one learn what the acronyms mean?
Thank you for the info on the Urban Dictionary Site. We had no idea what 420 meant. Now we do!

RE: How does one learn what the acronyms mean?
There is another list on lifestylelounge. It's this list and a few more, like AIRTIGHT,IE: All holes filed. It's in Article's or tools.

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