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Full vs soft swap

I see and hear that some people don't consider soft swap to be swinging. We are a soft swap couple for the most part (do have one couple we full swap with) and have enjoyed the majority of the experiences that we have had over the last 2 years. But recently we were denied meeting someone because we were not full swap. I understand it is their preference as being soft is ours. Do you turn away soft swappers? What are your thoughts.


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RE: Full vs. soft swap
I think softswap can be fun. We have considered some soft swap meetings...but it always seemed to end up full swap. :)

RE: Full vs. soft swap
We are full-swappers and would not only understand your limits, but respect them as we look at every meet as an opportunity to meet up with a new friend. We do not go into a meeting with sex as the main reason (although it would be nice), we know that if its meant to happen it will.

As for this circumstance...the denial of the meeting up is just common sense; You were not their/his/her type. Some full swappers just wanna fuck... and that's their right they just want to get to business. It's nothing personal against you. It just their desire to not want to do soft swap.

Sharon

RE: Full vs. soft swap
We dont turn a soft swap couple down because you never know. We have a story in our profile about a newbie couple and they was soft swap only but not anymore lol lol You never know when someone might change their minds. We started soft swap over 6 years ago and we changed for sure. Some people just may find them selves mor secure with the right couple thats what happened with us.
gary and amanda

RE: Full vs. soft swap
I agree with you sharon many just want to add a notch in their bedpost and move on. We can care less if things lead to adult play or not. We have found out that when you dont the first few times it leads to better friendships. I am not saying we wont on first date because we have lmao
gary and amanda

RE: Full vs. soft swap
Hey Anthony I thought yall was still virgins lmao lmao
gary

RE: Full vs. soft swap
There is nothing wrong with either. I was with a couple, it was all about masturbation. I knew a lady that got off using my toys. It's all good.
If a couple gets off watching their partners with someone else, only, that's how they live the lifestyle.
Don't worry about what others think, have fun. Do it your way.

RE: Full vs. soft swap
We prefer full swap with other cpls, but won't eliminate soft swap cpls, (just as stated) ya never know what will happen! :wink: But I feel there are many forms of swingers! Some are more adventurous than others! Some like soft swap, some like full swap. Some swingers are voyeur's & some are into bondage. I say to each their own, what ever turns you on!! xoxo Shirley

RE: Full vs. soft swap
Without a doubt, we do what feels to us at the time. After all, it's about personal enjoyment . Lol Like Shirley said, if you are into it, it's out there in the lifestyle!!

RE: Full vs. soft swap
Virgins? No, we have played with other couples before. We have just never been to a large party, like the ones you have! :) Still working on that with her. :):)

RE: Full vs. soft swap
Ok anthony you didnt tell me any of that before no more virgin then lmao Our parties aint big just alot of fun :naughty: lmao
gary

RE: Full vs. soft swap
whats the difference between soft and full swap ......were new

RE: Full vs. soft swap
Soft swap is oral only with other couples and full is intercourse

RE: Full vs. soft swap
we are new to this lifestyle. soft swap is a good way to start,ya never know where it may lead.i can see us doing soft swap and if it leads to full swap that would be great also. the possibilities are endless. we would never turn down any opportunity because you are soft swap.

RE: Full vs. soft swap
we also, never turn down an evening or afternoon's enjoym,ent with another couple, be it full or soft swap. Its more about adults getting together and having an enjoyable time together, tasting, touching and pleasuring the body mind and soul.
some times the soft swap turns into a full swap, which is all good, but then again, as long as everyone, at the end of the day/afternoon/night is happy, tired out and grinning ear to ear, does it really matter?

RE: Full vs. soft swap
For us we don't really "swap" at all, we prefer group play with lots of girl on girl. We are just not as interested in doing the things we already do together as a couple. We find all group play whether its just the ladies, ladies and your own partner, all together with only oral or all together with intercourse to be very erotic.
We do not turn down couples that play only "soft" but we do turn down "straight" couples. For us the female contact is important.



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