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Do single guys have a chance?
I am an attractive single guy. Every time I have been to a swingers club I have had no problem meeting people. In fact I am the one that usually gets approached by the woman. So why are fewer and fewer clubs allowing single guys? How I supposed to meet women and couples for fun? Any suggestions?
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RE: Do single guys have a chance?
try being married and doing solo. its just as hard. |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
yeah cause as a married man playing you get hit with the hes cheating aspect on top of being ther by yourself. Belive i understand dealt with that too when i was married.. thank god im not anymore.
as far as getting in to clubs as a single guy one of the couples you meet ask them if the will escourt ya in single males can generaly get in with a couple, then at that point you go and meet others.
chrris
chris |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
One suggestion is for a single guy to befriend a single woman and visit clubs as a couple. It is a win-win situation. The single woman is somewhat "protected" when accompanied by a single guy and they can play with other couples or singles...you end up with a "partner" for your 3somes and couple encounters. |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
Why as a married person are you swinging single? I can see if your partner is sick one night, but if it is a repetitive event it sounds like there are more serious problems than getting laid. |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
I think there are some people with an open marriage here....and some people have told me the wife doesn't participate in swinging. Do those people have issues, who are we to judge? This I have learned about swinging. Just my thoughts xoxo Shirley |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
True Shirley, but I've always had this thorn under my skin with this topic.... and I tried to express my thoughts diplomatically in my post. Guess I have been burnt too many times when I was single and always jump to the wrong conclusion, or perhaps too cautious! I'm learning however, to let the guard down a bit, but hate when the instincts kick in ;) Thanks for the insight!!
Sharon |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
It is not wrong to wonder why someone may be swinging single while they have a mate at home. Swinging is supposed to be drama free. I would not want to meet a woman at a club or site just to be caught in the middle when her husband found out. It goes both ways. I think single men get a bad rep by the ones that are cheating. I went threw this when I started on this site, But thanks to people like Clark and Shirley and Lyn and Ed and Gin who befriended and guided me threw what is an amazing world of meeting some fun and interesting people. These were the people who made it possibble for this single guy to get in to the swinging seen and also meet the love of my life here. Be honest and make friends who can introduce you as a person who can be trusted and the rest will fall into line. |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
Well said Todd! Thanks for clearing things up... and I promise I'm trying my best to be a less pessimistic. I can relate to the husband vs the wifey issue since I didn't have any male friends period because of the Ex.... maybe that is why I have this negative attitude, which is changing as I learn and grow and trust in a loving relationship :) :kiss:
Sharon |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
You are such a sweetheart hun!! :bigkiss: And here is one for Sharon :bigkiss: Love ya both!! xoxo Shirley & Clark |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
Unfortunately it would seem that the well groomed, in shape, sane man is hard to find. The clubs that allow so called singles are full of cheaters and creepy, unkempt men which has given all singles a bad rap. Even here the few times I have entered the chat room I was approached by married men wanting to play behind their wifes back or cam for me and keep it secret etc... |
RE: Do single guys have a chance?
ithink the reasons why single men are an outcast is the 2000 year evelution thing men are threatened by oyher men not all men but alot its the alfa male thing to protect what we got |
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