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Crossdressers What do people think of them?

I had an experience the other day. I had come across what I thought to be an attractive lady, only to find out that she was a he! Now, Im not one to judge others, hey its just a thing ya know. Ive wondered what makes certain people comfortable doing whatever they find turns them on or is crossdressing more of something else? Makes me wonder if theres something to that kinda thing. I also ran into a old man in Houston, Tx once that was a biker, saw him in a Whataburger on I10. He was most definately a man, but he just had on pink leather biker outfit and pink nails and Makeup. I know there are Cd's here on ST, so this begs the question..what do others really think of them and is it normal to want to try kinky and weird things?

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RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well, we have never met a cross-dresser, so I don't know. I wouldn't say "No" to that person before I got to know them. I think, we'd have to communicate further before making a decision. Just my opinion xoxo Shirley

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Maybe they just like the same sexy stuff women like???? LOL! We men are limited pretty much to boxers, speedos, ect. You women get to look and smell so sexy in your various attire, and maybe some men want to try it?? I don't know, maybe it goes deeper than that. Ive never really paid attention, but since seeing them up close and in public, maybe they are nearer and out more than we realize and not even know it.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I have met a few cross dressing people, even worked with one when I was a government employee. I sometimes wish I could do my makeup 1/2 as good as some of these men do, lol.
As to experimenting with a Transgender or Cross Dresser, I think if we hit it off and the chemisty is there I would. The idea of trying something different is always a turn on for me, plus being bisexual it may be the best of both worlds.

Sharon

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well, when i was in New Orleans Me and my friends decided to take in a strip club. And we were in there for 3 or 4 drinks and started to talk with these women and find out that we were in a female impersonators strip club. And we could not believe this cause they were so beautiful. So we convinced one of the strippers to pull there bottoms down. Low and behold there it was. And after talking with them most of them had boob jobs and one was actually taking female hormones to grow breasts. I still cant believe how beautiful they were.

Kelly

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I know a cross dresser. He's a great guy and a hot chic when he's dressed. The wife and I are going to do a show on cam with him one of these days soon.

I would really like to find a beautiful trans gender with breasts and a penis to play with us. The wife would love it too.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
If your wife is ok with it and you're comfortable with it than I say go for it.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well have known to cd's an there were fine people as far as weird or kinky go's we are all weird or kinky in some one's mined an at one time meet a trannie thought he was a she by the time I found out hell was to late to do anything but enjoy it an I did am BI so it wouldn't have been a problem any way

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Doesnt do anything for us at all, but good on those for whom it rings their bell.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
not my thing, don't think ol' girl would get into it on a sexual basis, probably friedship tho, depending on the person. i 'acted' in the local rocky horror picture show, from about 15 to 22 or so, met alot of people with all kinds of kinks and fetishes. hey, everybody needs a hobby.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
The great thing about this lifestyle is you can be whom ever and whtever you want to be. And should not be judged for it, to each his own. Personally we would shy away from someone like that. But that's just our preference not saying anything is wrong with them.
Dave and Mary

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
As a crossdresser I can say that there is more to the desire to dress than just kink. For me it was a desire that was there from the time I was little. I would much rather be a woman, but have to just settle for being as much of a woman as possible, whenever I get the chance! I love this site because it is full of open-minded people (reading the replies to your question sort of proves that), and it's extremely liberatig to express myself how I want to sexually.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Wow..Im amazed at the quick responses to the question. I was always curious what others thought, as I never really had an opinion on it one way or the other. It was just I was so utterly taken aback by the comfortableness and way these two had presented themselves to the public. I myself am not sure I could do that in public. That takes a big set of brass balls. I had wondered if there were more than I saw around that Ive never seen. As I said, I and or we don't judge others, and I can see where it could be confusing for them or others as that type of dressing is normally looked down at by our past generations. And this being a "sex" site, I thought it would be an appropriate place to pose a question like that.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well, I can't say that I go all out, but I've had my experience. I like to wear wedge heels, platorm sandals, and sometimes capris. I don't want to go transgender cause i'm quite grateful to be a guy. It's really not about the public's eye because a lot of people are turned off by crossdressers. I just enjoy it for the sex appeal and excitement for my own mind, and going against the mainstream of people. Anything that men can wear, women have an equivalent made for them, from jeans to tuxedos and it's acceptable to society. Why can't men do the same?

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I highly recommend Crossdressing to all my macho friends. Yes it does take a lot of courage to go out as I do and to allow your femininity to be seen by others. I have done the Marine Corps, The Vietnam war, Connected Steel as a Ironworker for twenty Years, been a natural bodybuilder all my life. nurturing my feminity is the best thing I have ever done for my health.

Too many men have been taught to believe that unhealthy living is what real men do. BULLSHIT.
Don't believe it. You will die befor your time.

Peace to you all.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Just have to say your pic is beautiful. I believe everyone should be free to be who they are and explore their sexuality free from stigma. Visually for me it is more appealing when they look very feminine and you have to take a second look to realize it is a man. I have seen some that look like men in womens clothes which is not as appealing for me. I do take my hat off to them as it is hard to go public and am not sure I would be as brave if the roles were ever reversed. Kudos

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well haven't ran into any cross dressers that I know of but you know somemen that are gay look better in some womans outfits then us women do. sorry but I have seen that and I mean to each his/own if you look good in ti flaunt it. You know they say a gay man is a girls best friend.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I applaud and appreciate your candid response Amber, it takes courage and true desire to be different within lifes given "politically correct" categories. I remember when I came out to being bisexual to my family... my kids understand it since this generation is more tolerant; but I'm not sure my parents understood or understand even now.

Does your family know of your lifestyle choice?

Sharon

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
my neighbor is a cross dresser and he loves it and you know a persons sexuality is all we realy own in this world

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I know a few cross dressing men, first cross dressers and drag queens and bi sexuals are all different. The cross dressers I know aren't gay, they love the way womens close feel. and just like the way it all feels. They do go to bars and allow men to talk after them but aren't into the sex with men. I allowed one of them to dress me up and learned a lesson. It's a lot of work for women to get dressed and made me feel bad for always feeling they take to long to get dressed.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
What bothers us about cross dressers is when they come to a site like this and create a profile as a couple when they clearly are not. other wise to each his or her own. Honesty is always the best in all aspects of life.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I work in an adult store(porn store sounds dirty),and I believe it would be hypocritical on my part to work there and still judge people.We see cross dressers,bisexuals(male & female),gay men,lesbians...and although my co workers are homophobic(great career choice if ya ask me),I am not.I accept people on their merits,not their sexual choices.Would we play with a crossdresser,YES,if the chemistry is there.We're actually looking forward to it.

Russ

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Thanks to all who posted. Its nice to see that being different can be accepted by many instead of the few closedminded.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Hey, to each their own. We may not understand it but they must get something out of it

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
I am very far from gay but will occasionaly belly up at a known bar because I find it more comfortable than straight bar when alone. I sat next to a transsexual? not sure; I know she/he is gay, said so. I enjoyed the evening chating, one dance and then took her home, held her hand as we crossed the street and felt connected to this 'Gemini' whos birthday is one day away from mine (scary). BTW took her home = gave her a ride, excorted to apartment, went home (I did get her e-maol and I may correspond), unsure....

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
This was a very nice question! A lot of answers and opinions! I've been in this site for 5 or more years now as Lisa and know a few people that responded... thank you. Personally I know I'm a man but I've always wondered as a young boy if I wasn't a woman in a man's body! To be brief, at age 6 I wanted to keep the birthday present for a classmate (girl) of a blue topaz ring my mom and I purchased at the 5 and dime! Maybe she knew what was going on? At age 9 or 10 (@1958) I got dressed in my sisters clothes! They caught me too! How do you know at that age to do something like that? As time went on I was married, we have 2 great kids, and divorced! No one knows I'm Lisa in the family for they are gay bashing types! I hide to protect their psychie and mine! I've come out more this past year than ever before! What's to lose? I'm 62! The "dressing" has been going on for 20 or more years after my son left to go live with his mom 415 miles away giving me the quiet solitude of transforming slowly. Believe me I love being a man and having a wife would be the best thing in my life right now! But how do you tell a beautiful woman she looks great and she finds out you were eyeing her clothes for yourself? Not true by the way. A just if thought! Or you become intimate and then the truth comes out! I can only imagine she would be running as fast as she could with her panties tucked between her legs! I suppose in this day and age, it's ok but I grew up in the 50's and 60's and don't have the guts to walk out the door as Lisa 24/7 or 365 days of the year! Lately, however, I am changing that fear in me! I suppose at my age I don't care what people think anymore so I tweak my feminity and maintain my male gender! It seems my life is like the Jimmy Durante song! You leave , you don't etc.. So to all you straight folk out there thank your lucky stars your gender is not messed up or your left with questions! Also be thankful you all have loving partners that will be nourishing! As for the great life of both worlds? Where is it? I haven't seen it. perhaps I haven't met the right people!

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
My question is,,If a male likes to dress in ladies clothing,, Some think it's odd ,,
But a lady in men's clothing is?????
They don't get the same outcome,, but by human nature people are curious,,
I have 1 crossdresser friend here , we share a lot ,,,Birthdays even,,very special person,

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Great response Lisa! I have watched you grow these past couple years and quite honestly, I think you have always been open with those you know you can trust... now its getting to that attitude as you said "I don't care if you don't like it it's me".

Thanks for the sharing and insight you've given others in this post, as it helps break down some of the barriers and answers questions !

Sharon

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Lisaforall; you go girl!Torturous at times I'll bet, be careful.

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Ok many years ago i went out to a local bar with 2 girls. When we got there they decided to sit in the back. They introduced me to a guy everyone called CD. Yes he was in womans clothes also. We sat around and talked for a while and all of a sudden they got up and left for a while. Ok now im sitting there thinking what do i do, should i get up and leave is everyone going to think im with him. Im completely lost at this point,and the next thing i know he got up and started dancing. Every girl in the bar was dancing with him and rubbing all over him. So now Im thinking Hey there is a lot more to this, and wanted to say oh by the way we are friends lmao
So think about that the next time you are sitting alone in the bar and judging people. Gary

RE: Crossdressers..What do people think of them?
Well that's why I posted the question. Regardless of wether 1 does it for kink, or he feels like a woman, or maybe he just likes to explore a feminine side, we should be more understanding of them and accept that they are just people like ourselves.

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