Swingers Answers |
Body Types
Swingers Answers Home Page
Add Post
Question:
Body Types
Question for the collective community. How big of a role does body type play in attraction? I myself used to have the abs and athletic body until an accident prevented me from working out for a long period, so now I am out of shape with a belly. I noticed that before my accident and while I was "chisled" out of stone the ladies always came on to me. Now since I am not as in shape as then it seems it is opposite. The fact that I was married remains the same as before so that is ruled out as a factor. It just seems that women, not bashing anyone in paticular, seem to flock more toward the "chip and dale" types but condemn men who do the same for the "playboy" types. I have seen many postings that state must be in good shape but the women are not themselves, what is good shape? Let it be known I can still pleasure the same as before just a little more wieght in the mix. Does it matter and why, and why does it matter to women but shouldn't men? Just a little thought in the mind of many perhaps? |
Answers:
RE: Body Types.
I would say physical appearance is important to both men and women. There is also a difference between a chisled body, an average body and an overweight body.
For me I am just not physically attracted to an overweight body, but that doesn't mean larger body types are overweight. I infact prefer a big guy over a slimmer guy no matter how chisled he is.
There is a difference in the body of someone who no longer works out regularly but eats right and that of someone who has let themselves go.
That all being said I believe that there is something for everyone out there. Cheers |
RE: Body Types.
i like women from skinny to chubby but not reallly fat. as long as you are a little better than average looking and " clean" im good with some extra weight. |
RE: Body Types.
Are you sure it's the women viewing you differently? It may not be the fact that you are no longer visiting the gym on a regular basis and not as built as you once were but that your self confidence isn't as it was thus altering your personality.
What were your views on weight then and have they changed at this point in your life?
Personally, body weight makes no difference to me, I prefer a larger framed man. But I absolutely cannot get into a person who is sloppy with their weight and allows their problems concerning their weight to hold them back and to be the topic of every conversation when chatting.
I enjoy people for who they are and their personality, respect and intellect is much more important to me than if they are carrying 100 extra pounds or not.
Smooches,
Gin |
RE: Body Types.
Well I am a plus size girl and I think as long as you are comfy with yourself, u r fine. I get as self conscious as the rest of the world though. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! |
RE: Body Types.
Some extra weight doesn't matter to me, don't worry, stangtatt, you still look like a pretty good looking :nudetwo: to me! |
RE: Body Types.
I just got on this site, and even looking into this kind of life style so i guess we are newbies. Although i am not new to life or physical attraction, me and my husband both truly belive that personality and confidence makes some one sexy like nothing else. we have experinced time and again friends of ours who could be extremly attractve miss there shot because they lacked that twinkle that people are drawn to, and the less physically atractive friend get the hotest girl all on pure confidence and personality. So let every one else see that beauty that you hold inside and i belive you will see a change.
|
RE: Body Types.
Having been both very large and thin, I noticed a big difference in the way people of both sexes treated me not just sexually but in everyday meetings. Now that I am thin I get more attention where ever I go and sexually more men are attracted to me. But I still say that sexy/beautiful/slutty is all a state of mind. It is how you carry yourself that draws the most attention. |
RE: Body Types.
I agree with you 100% Brandi... I have been on the weight rollercoaster since having children I've gone from 100 lbs and size 0 to size 10.. now at a 14. The one thing I have noticed is that depending on size, looks from men increase or decrease according to my weight.
I am however comfortable knowing that I do get looks, and the looks with extra weight means they are looking at my spankable butt as it walks on past them lmao
As to my likings... my only issue is playing with morbidly obese people. We all have our likes and dislikes, and I know for some people medication can increase weight as that is my latest battle, I am just not attracted physically to a person of that size. That does not mean I don't flirt, chat etc... because there are always exceptions to rules... :)
Sharon |
[] [] [swingers]
|
Nasca |
BayCouples |
SwapperNet |
SLS |
HedoOnline
|
